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ilzolende:

ilzolende:

Idea: Instead of trying to convince everyone that their continued existence is immoral, work on reducing the water needed for various daily activities.

Have decided to post the badwrong thing: http://fusion.net/story/309831/life-extension-silicon-valley-dystopian-future/

(Note: I’m going to use <angle brackets> for my paraphrasing. “Quotation marks” will be reserved for direct quotes.)

Stuff that starts with <Man, wouldn’t it be better if the outgroup, who disagreed with me, would just die?> is incredibly distasteful. Someone should write this author a letter starting with nostalgia for the days when everyone thought queer people would all die of AIDS, or pieces about how malaria is nature’s punishment for people with a different ethnicity from the letter-writer having too many kids, or something.

His behavior seemed eccentric and harmless at the time, but as more members of our country’s .01%—almost always male, and almost always white—become engaged in the attempt to draw out life spans, the potential dystopian consequences are harder to ignore.

<Your continued existence is inherently harmful to me> is a very strong and aggressive statement. Honestly, if my continued existence is inherently harmful to her, screw her, I’m not suicidal and I’m not obligated to be.

There aren’t many futures more chilling to me than one in which not even the march of time can free us from our oligarchs.

How about the futures where everyone keeps having to die, indefinitely?

But establishing a much longer life expectancy, whether that means a life that lasts 120 years or 500 years, would demand solutions to many fresh problems: Who pays for the treatments that make prolonged life possible? How would people afford basic expenses during their extra decades when they’re already struggling to provide for themselves now? Would we be living more years only so we could work more years and if so, is the longer life bargain worth it?

You just said that billionaires would buy the treatments for themselves. And, sure, living longer might be unpleasant, but if so, (assuming people get less ridiculous about suicide) you can just not do that? Do you want access to life extension tech or not? Pick one. How is providing more options inherently bad?

Maybe it’s just me, but the tone of this article seems to be <~it’s dystopian when my enemies aren’t dead uwu~>.

This cavalier vapidity led Packer to summarize Thiel’s vision of an ideal future as one in which “a few thousand Americans … live to a hundred and fifty, while millions of others … perish at sixty.”

Imagine playing so many zero-sum and negative-sum games that you stop being able to believe that benefits for some people can only be achieved by hurting other people at minimum an equivalent amount.

Most Americans aren’t interested in clinging to life at all costs, and most of us don’t want to live much longer than we already do. We (rightly) suspect that our quality of life will diminish as time passes, and feel guilty about further taxing the environment and finances of those left to care for us. That’s not a “pro-ageing trance”—that’s common sense and basic decency.

Look, part of anti-aging is about making sure quality of life doesn’t drop that much. Also, stop feeling suicidal because of environmentalism, that’s wrong, and regarding the environmentalists who did that to you: SCORN DEM.

And as Silicon Valley titans ignore their own water crisis while trying to devise ways for their individual, water-consuming selves to stick around for an extra century on top of all the new lives we’ll be welcoming onto the planet, we’re equally justified in withholding the good Samaritan status they try to claim.

Apparently we don’t deserve to live because some of us take baths and go swimming, then? How about we improve water efficiency and look at non-lethal methods of reducing population-growth-induced harms?

It’s disconcerting to see intelligent people treat aging as a “fundamental unsolved problem” or a “side-effect” instead of an elegant solution to an ecosystem that entails living beings using limited resources.

List of people who think my grandfather’s death is an “elegant solution” to their concerns:

  • Nazis
  • This author, apparently

Life needs to be recycled so more life is perpetuated; just give a listen to “The Circle of Life” if you need refreshing on that point.

So, I need to die so you can have 20 kids, is that it? I’m already here and your kids aren’t. For someone who seems like a feminist, you sure seem to value the creation of new humans over the individual rights of existing ones.

When I think about the nightmarish possibility of a world in which health care inequalities are even further exacerbated, two things come to mind. … The second is of one of my favorite bell hooks quotes: “Women and children all over the world want men to die so they can live.”

STOP PLAYING ZERO-SUM GAMES, STOP TELLING ME I’M OBLIGATED TO LET YOU WIN ZERO-SUM GAMES

Give me a world in which oligarchs and politicians are biologically incapable of staying in power for centuries or else, please, give me an early death.

Local discourse norms prevent me from actually giving the response this statement seems to merit.

Aaaand that’s the lowlights of the article. Ugh. Thank you, Amelia, for showing this to me.

This is an excellent snark on a terribly and extremely shitty zero-sum person.

and yeah, I’m also thinking of a very deserved response which is totally against all discourse norms worth having in public (reverse-engineering the response from this information shouldn’t be that hard for the people who really want to know; it’s cheap, it’s a classic, and it’s very terrible in this context)

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1 week ago · tagged #death cw #bad sj cw · 143 notes · source: ilzolende · .permalink


“Punching Down” in a curved social spacetime metric

frustrateddemiurge:

So, a friend posted this on Facebook:

I just read a text exchange in which a guy tried to flirt with a stranger on Facebook by sending her a picture of his penis. The woman responded by ridiculing him, sending him lots of pictures of other men’s penises to demonstrate how horrible it is to receive dick pics, and suggesting that his dick was small and diseased. He got angry, and asked to end the conversation, which she didn’t do. Then he asked her not to share the conversation, and she posted the whole thing publicly, along with his name. Now it’s on my news feed because lots of people are reading it and finding it hilarious.

I hope I’m not the only one who thinks this is tragic.

The perception of dick pics as disgusting, low status, and worthy of ridicule is part of the larger perception of sexuality as shameful. I would much, much rather live in a culture where I sometimes received unwanted images of strangers’ genitals as part of clumsy flirting than to live in a culture where being open about sexuality is about as safe as making violent threats.

I would love to live in the nearby world where “you’re cute, wanna see my dick/vulva?” is a polite way of finding out whether an attractive stranger feels like sharing a casual online sexual interaction. The man’s actions in this exchange make me feel a lot more like I live in that world than do the woman’s.

I recognize that, given we *don’t* live in that world, *and* that the world we do live in includes a lot of people who feel women should be grateful for male attention and never allowed to protect themselves let alone retaliate, dick pics are often (usually?) more of a harmful spam tactic than a kind of benign if inept way of flirting.

I think it’s a good idea to discourage spamming people, and also to discourage treating women as if they have no right to refuse sexual advances.

But please, please, do not confuse strategic choice of social norms with the rush of a cheap status-boost. Do not play along with the game where we all punish each other for having bodies in the context of Christian purity and original sin.

So I gave my take on it:

The boy in question may not, himself, have realized he was performing an aggressive move. He may have just been emulating a move that he saw as successful, because when aggressive men make that move they often *are* successful.

It’s generally the less aggressive males, attempting to emulate aggressive strategies without even realizing that the underlying structure of the strategy is aggression, that get piled on for being aggressive.

The actual aggressive males get away with it, because no one wants to fight them.


Then I read this cracked article:
http://www.cracked.com/blog/why-internet-gun-aimed-at-everyones-face/


Now, spread this ridiculously important meme:

If you’re winning the fight against a particular person, I guarantee you they aren’t the kind of person you think you’re fighting against.

If you’re making some fedora-wearing neckbeard cry delicious man-tears, if you’re viciously shaming some size 0 fetish model for promoting unhealthy body standards, if you’re screaming at some transgirl for “invading your safe space” and “not being a real woman”, if you’re savaging some internet pundit for using “transgirl” because they haven’t kept up with the lingo-of-the-week… you’re almost certainly attacking someone who’s probably been hurt worse by the Patriarchy than you have.

Because if you’re successfully attacking, and they aren’t successfully defending, then that almost certainly means you have more structural and institutional power than they do.

Feels nice, doesn’t it?

This is a pretty important heuristic.

no, actually…

This is a VERY IMPORTANT HEURISTIC.

However, anyone who sends me unsolicited dick pics will be at my mercy nonetheless. There Will Be Consequences, regardless of one’s position in the hierarchies, because I mostly* don’t want to receive unsolicited dick pics and anyone disregarding my explicit preference on the topic deserves the Consequences, and I believe that it’s more fair if I make these things explicit so a) benign but inept people would know it isn’t okay and b) malign people could not pose as benign but inept people.

(* It has been hypothesized that there might exist a category of people for whom the Consequences and “being at my mercy” would be net positive things, but I will not say explicitly which that category is, because I can’t give people foolproof definitions of when unsolicited dick pics could be okay and thus even ridiculously cute trans girls might end up misunderstanding the boundary and thus causing a net loss of utility when I would have to reject a ridiculously cute trans girl and that would be sad. So anyway even ridiculously cute trans girls please be careful about sending me dick pics and should probably ask first because asking first is a very good side to err on.)

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2 weeks ago · tagged #bad sj cw #steel feminism · 261 notes · source: frustrateddemiurge · .permalink


scatterdarknessscattersilence:

toasthaste:

Here’s a thing: there’s nothing sacred about callout posts. Anyone can make one. This includes abusive people.

In fact, given the common abuser tactic of isolating their victim from any possible support networks, I think it’s actually MORE likely for abusers to make callout posts about their targets than vice versa.

If you see a callout post on your dash that makes no effort to back up its claims, and you don’t know the poster? Don’t spread it. There is an extremely high chance you’d be doing an abuser’s work for them.

And if they DO provide links to back up their claims? READ THEM. Don’t just assume those links say what the poster claims they do. I have seen SO MANY callout posts cross my dash, where the descriptions of their “receipts” were just blatant misrepresentations of what happened– sometimes even outright lies– and the few that have checked out don’t REMOTELY make up for the many that started baseless witch hunts.

this is especially used against trans women, since transphobic ideas about them make it really easy for people to believe they’re sexual predators etc

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