Anonymous asked: With regards to competing needs, what is the response for large scale/mutually exclusive needs, such as someone who needs stability and consistency and someone who needs revolution or mass change?
wirehead-wannabe:
theunitofcaring:
(epistemic status: I’m an incrementalist. That means I support doing small things in the direction of this and checking whether they work.)
Archipelagoism, the political philosophy of lots of self-governed states which can operate by any rule at all as long as they have unconditional exit rights. So if someone wants to live in a feudal monarchy, they totally can - but anyone who doesn’t like it will leave, so good luck oppressing your inferiors. Want to set up a fundamentalist religious state? Okay, but I can set up a state specifically for ex-members of your fundamentalist religion who want to stop following your strict laws, and anyone who is unhappy in your state can come to mine.
You really really like revolution? You can have a state that overthrows its political system every few years, but if it sucks (and honestly, sounds like it’d suck) then no one will choose to live there and it’ll die out.
You want a communist state? You have one! And if it works everyone will join you and we’ll have full communism. But anyone who isn’t happy has the right to choose a different system.
The way to make this work is probably to separate governance from control of physical territory. A government is a contract between all of the people who agree to abide by the government’s system for choosing laws and the laws themselves, in exchange for whatever benefits the government offers them. Governance will probably mostly be local because it works best locally, but you needn’t claim a bunch of territory before you can start calling yourself a government. This makes it easier for people to leave, too, since leaving needn’t involve uprooting yourself to somewhere where you may not speak the language.
As much as I’m in favor of this in most cases, I still have yet to be convinced that it does an adequate job of protecting the rights of children and animals. In the case of children you can say that they’re allowed to leave whenever they want, but brainwashing is a powerful tool, and some kids are too young to even communicate their desire to leave. If someone decides that they want to have a nation where they beat their infants and just let them die of preventable, deadly, and-or permanent disability-inducing illness, should they be allowed to? And once you start regulating what kids can be exposed to you start going down a long road of banning things that might conceivably harm young children.
Yes this. Archipelago would be basically ideal if kids didn’t exist. The closest thing that’d be anywhere near realistic would be Archipelago with child protective services, setting certain standands of what kinds of things all children must be allowed to do and know and what they’d be protected from. Unfortunately those standards would probably need to be determined by some process which is beholden to the vox populi at least to some degree. (democracy, yuck; collectivistic education to the standards of the mob, yuck; but letting evil parents do evil things to their children is even worse)
2 months ago · 68 notes · source: theunitofcaring · .permalink
maddeningscientist:
for-all-mankind:
Falcon 9 successfully lands on droneship. (April 8, 2016)
SpaceX’s Falcon 9 rocket for the CRS-8 ISS resupply mission lands on the Autonomous Spaceport Drone Ship 185 miles northwest of Cape Canaveral in the Atlantic Ocean.
Liftoff occurred at 4:43 pm EDT, with landing occurring nine minutes later.
This was the fourth droneship landing attempt of a Falcon 9 rocket. CRS-5, CRS-6 and JASON-3 all ended with rapid unplanned disassembly. Orbcomm OG2 sucessfully landed on land at LZ-1.
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
^ seconded. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA is a very appropriate reaction to this.
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The generalized fuckup model of learning feels quite useful for a certain kind of personality.
If you assume you are predestined to do a certain amount of fuckups until you start running out of them and therefore will fuck up less, fucking up doesn’t mean “I’m worthless and can’t do anything right”, instead it means “okay, I can cross that one off my list”.
Of course, you might have a similar one awaiting later on, but that particular one instance of that particular one type of fuckup is done and won’t come again, and the amount of fuckups remaining is now lesser than it used to be!
And the right way to learn is to get all the inevitable fuckups done as fast as possible, which just so happens to match the right course of action for actually learning the stuff even outside the simplification of the fuckup model.
And eventually you will start fucking up in novel ways because you run out of the elementary fuckups, and the time between fuckups will start to grow greater and ultimately you will be a master because you fuck up in ways most people can’t reach while having run out of the fuckups people regularly have.
It has had a very positive impact on my social anxiety at least. 4.5/5 would recommend for people who haven’t thought of it before and think they could benefit from trying.
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2 months ago · tagged #i think this is what they call learning #you fuck up all the fuckups in you and then eventually #you stop having fuckups to upfuck #and then you are the skilled · 2 notes · .permalink
ozymandias271:
Chapter two of the zootopia fic.
the theme of this chapter is Random Rants About Sex Work Decriminalization, and also Judy Breaking Nick’s Heart With Off-Hand Comments
I am such a terrible, shameful pervert
I can’t believe I just literally read a furry fic for the libertarianism about sex work and drugs
in my defense it was a very good libertarianism
that cop seemed like a sympathetic cop and making a cop seem sympathetic to me is evidence of very good writing (or at least I think that one was a cop didn’t really pay that much attention to the characters, I was there only for the decriminalization propaganda)
also this shame feels so good
what is happening to me
2 months ago · tagged #the best heuristic for oppressed people since sharp stick time #promethea has the weirdest kinks · 25 notes · source: ozymandias271 · .permalink
On the care and keeping of your scientist
Congratulations on adopting a scientist! Regardless of their field they will require much coffee, free food, and love. Here are some field specific tips for keeping your scientist happy and healthy!
Biology:
make sure they don't get overly invested in their model organism by reminding them about the flaws inherent in their system on a regular basis, but also make sure to join in when they criticize other models in favor of their own
Chemistry:
don't let them do that 'just one more reaction' at 10 pm. make sure they get out of the lab and see the sun on a regular basis. try to keep them from partying too hard when they do leave the lab
Geology:
humor their rock puns but don't let the lick the rocks (they will tell you they need to lick the rocks to identify them, but don't fall for it)
Astronomy:
try not to let them become completely nocturnal. point out nice stars to them and look suitably impressed by their "pictures" of planets that don't look like anything to you
Physics:
take them to the park on a regular basis to remind them that things larger than subatomic particles exist. bring a frisbee or a ball to play catch with and be impressed by their ability to calculate trajectories
Math:
always make sure to have free batteries for their calculators and a mathmatica user guide on hand. Humor them when they tell you why space without angles is important
Ecology:
make sure they remember to wear sunscreen and keep an eye on them in the field. Remind them to come inside and analyze their data occasionally
Psychology:
don't mention Freud or ever call them a soft or social science, but make sure you gently remind them that social factors can impact reproducibility and try to keep them from drawing sweeping conclusions about the inherent nature of humanity
Neuroscience:
be suitably impressed by their newest experiment and then remind them that people are not mice as often as possible
Computer Science:
make sure they take breaks while debugging by limiting their supply of coffee. Nod and smile when they go off on indexing and arrays. Make sure they always have a rubber duck.
Make sure to keep your scientist away from engineers unless they have been properly socialized to interact in a translational household. The most important thing is to remember to hug your scientist on a regular basis and remind them that there is life outside the lab
2 months ago · 22,535 notes · source: adventuresinchemistry · .permalink
wirehead-wannabe:
People on Facebook are now declaring their willingness to transition and then sleep with Eliezer in exchange for more HPMOR.
Okay, @sinesalvatorem existing might only be the _second_ most efficient way of equalizing the gender ratio in the community. More data is needed.
2 months ago · tagged #just one word: plastics · 67 notes · source: wirehead-wannabe · .permalink
sinesalvatorem:
inquisitivefeminist:
sinesalvatorem:
inquisitivefeminist:
sinesalvatorem:
socialjusticemunchkin:
sinesalvatorem:
inquisitivefeminist:
sinesalvatorem:
inquisitivefeminist:
There’s been a recent trend of How I Got A Rationalist Social Circle posts going around, and I’ve noticed that most of them begin with “I was too nervous to talk to anyone but then I talked to @sinesalvatorem and she was super nice, and then I made a bunch of other friends!”
I mean if we’re going to have an Official Rationalist Welcome Wagon Alison’s probably the right person for the job
I approve of being the official welcomer. Anyone who wants to be initiated should totally hit me up.
Actually, tbh, your talents are being underutilized. Too bad The Rationalist Community isn’t the type of organization that has marketing pushes to Recruit More Girls.
We could put you in a sexy outfit and have you dart around the edges of the Blue Tribe, enticing young girls to follow you into the Forests of Rationalism like some kind of gay will-o-the-wisp.
What!? Why would I prey on innocent Blue Tribe girls and turn them into My People??? *nervous laughter as I close my OkCupid tabs*
…why wouldn’t we be the type of organization to have a marketing push to Recruit More Girls? The rationalist community is what we make of it, and I don’t see any reason not to make a girlsmoreofrecruitment drive of it. We don’t have a rationalist czar telling us _not_ to do it.
As someone who grudgingly matches the description “girl” (at least by people who don’t know that my brain wants to belong in the “totally made-up category” of “N E O T E N I C androgyny” instead) and who perfectly matches the description “I was too nervous to talk to anyone but then I talked to @sinesalvatorem and she was super nice, and then I made a bunch of other friends!” I wholeheartedly endorse this approach.
IDK. I’m kind of off-put by pushes to recruit members of $DEMOGRAPHIC. Social communities thrive based on shared interests and values, and efforts to attract more people of a given demographic usually trade off against that.
I am all for recruiting more people with rationalist interests and values. If they’re female, great! But targeting women specifically would almost certainly mean compromising some feature of the existing community dynamic.
I enjoying being around members of my demographic as much as the next person, but if aiming for women means less Tolkien in textbooks, or aiming for Caribbean people means raising the level of acceptable homophobia, then no thank you.
I mean, a lot of the reason pushes to include particular demographics exist is because there are lots of people who are part of the demographics in question who would totally love to be part of the rationalist community, but there are other factors preventing members of the demographic from joining.
For example, despite loving Luminosity I initially avoided the rationalist community because I had heard that a lot of members were unusually hostile towards women. This has, for the most part, not been my experience. If Rationalist Recruitment Teams were a thing it would have been very helpful if one of them had said to me, politely and not in a Gotcha You Evil Assumption-Making SJer way, “hey, actually, most of us don’t hate women over here, check out all these high-status women in our community”.
the point of campaigns like this should be to find people who would totally belong in the community but are staying away because they’re worried about hostility
I am totally in favour of that! I would like people who are afraid that we’ll be hostile to feel welcome. I am personally willing to roll out the welcome wagon.
because
like no ones suggesting you pull random women off the street and
press-gang them into being nerds or rationalists or whatever
Um, we have obviously seen very very different recruitment campaigns. In my experience, as a black person who has been active in a bunch of disproportionately-white internet groups, the average campaign leans more toward grabbing random people off the street and trying to integrate them into your group than toward targeting actually interested people.
I mean, the things I saw ranged from patronising (“We’ll get more black people if we talk about hip hop a lot!”) to actively destructive (”Our comic forum is going to ban discussions of any comics that don’t have at least one black character”). Have you seen a bunch of white guys desperately screaming into the void about hip hop in the hopes that their black senpais will notice them before? It’s the saddest thing. Three-legged puppies with cancer are more cheerful.
As my OkCupid activity indicates, I’m perfectly happy proselytising to women. I do it a lot! I tell people about the gospel of bednets and transhumanism and glowfic automatically. I’d be happy to join black student groups at Stanford and encourage anyone who’s a good fit to join us. Just from the fact that I like being around other women and black people, I’ll probably do more than my share of converting women and blacks.
But the moment someone says “You know what would attract black people? If we stopped talking about [heresy of the month]”, I will be the first person to say “Fuck black people. We don’t need them anyway!”
Yeah by “no one is suggesting” I totally meant “I am not suggesting/no one in the rationalist community is suggesting”, I have definitely seen really terrible demographic-based outreach campaigns. (My absolute favorite are the ones that are like “hey girls! You don’t have to be an Icky Nerd to be a programmer! You can totally be good at computers and ALSO perform femininity, you don’t have to be like those gross girls who DON’T perform femininity! Empowerment!”).
What I’m getting at here is that we shouldn’t decide not to do a thing entirely just because some people are terrible at doing it, especially if a well-executed version of the thing could do a lot of good. And also that there should be more well-executed versions of the thing.
Good demographic-based outreach campaigns would be a great idea. I’m just not sure how to stop them from degenerating into really bad outreach campaigns. Most of the bad campaigns I’ve seen started off super reasonable, and then they collapsed in on themselves.
I don’t know how to do the thing in a way that I can be sure won’t end with egg on my face, so I’m hesitant to start now. If I learn more about what makes campaigns go sour first, then I might be less averse to trying.
Suggested datapoint for a good demographic-based outreach campaign: you doing the thing you are doing, exactly as you are doing. Sexy outfit optional but probably situationally useful sometimes.
Someone should run the data on this but I suspect that the best and reliablest way to fund a demographic-based outreach campaign for the community would be to pay your bills and arrange other things done so that you could fully focus on your comparative advantages of being an awesome person to talk to and introducing people to other awesome people.
Of course, it could be that my personal biases have simply led me to rationalize why we should let an Alison loose on the internets and meatspaces without being constrained by boring things, but out of all the things to rationalize I don’t think that one is anywhere near the worst.
2 months ago · 110 notes · source: inquisitivefeminist · .permalink
technologizeable:
anthropicprincipal:
socialjusticemunchkin:
sinesalvatorem:
inquisitivefeminist:
sinesalvatorem:
inquisitivefeminist:
There’s been a recent trend of How I Got A Rationalist Social Circle posts going around, and I’ve noticed that most of them begin with “I was too nervous to talk to anyone but then I talked to @sinesalvatorem and she was super nice, and then I made a bunch of other friends!”
I mean if we’re going to have an Official Rationalist Welcome Wagon Alison’s probably the right person for the job
I approve of being the official welcomer. Anyone who wants to be initiated should totally hit me up.
Actually, tbh, your talents are being underutilized. Too bad The Rationalist Community isn’t the type of organization that has marketing pushes to Recruit More Girls.
We could put you in a sexy outfit and have you dart around the edges of the Blue Tribe, enticing young girls to follow you into the Forests of Rationalism like some kind of gay will-o-the-wisp.
What!? Why would I prey on innocent Blue Tribe girls and turn them into My People??? *nervous laughter as I close my OkCupid tabs*
…why wouldn’t we be the type of organization to have a marketing push to Recruit More Girls? The rationalist community is what we make of it, and I don’t see any reason not to make a girlsmoreofrecruitment drive of it. We don’t have a rationalist czar telling us _not_ to do it.
As someone who grudgingly matches the description “girl” (at least by people who don’t know that my brain wants to belong in the “totally made-up category” of “N E O T E N I C androgyny” instead) and who perfectly matches the description “I was too nervous to talk to anyone but then I talked to @sinesalvatorem and she was super nice, and then I made a bunch of other friends!” I wholeheartedly endorse this approach.
For most X, the best way to get more women who are X is to get women who are not X to be X. But, Rationalism seems to have pretty good luck getting non-woman Rationalists to be women.
I am going to pretend that I am evidence for this, even though I am not.
Datapoint reporting in. Yudkowsky changed my gender over a one-way text-only communication channel. Or maybe it was the plastics in the water, and LW just triggered it. Nonetheless, I read the sequences (except for the part on quantum mechanics), and deduced that I should go on hormones. It was a very successful individual application of X-rationality.
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dickslapthestate:
harmonic-motion:
mistletoe-fucker:
socialjusticeprincesses:
ima-fuckingt4ble:
ranting-rose:
dickslapthestate:
ranting-rose:
ittybittykittykisses:
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friendly-neighborhood-patriarch:
lazyhat:
I was pretty skeptical about the figures, since they contradict what I usually hear on the media, so I did a little research. Here’s what I found:
(Sorry this is so US centric)
(I’ll also try to stay close to primary sources as possible)
(http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/ss6308a1.htm?s_cid=ss6308a1_e)
- the 12 months before taking the survey, an estimated 4.0% of women experienced some form of physical violence by an intimate partner
-an estimated 14.2% of women experienced some form of psychological aggression in the 12 months preceding the survey.
-*4,774,000 women have been victims of physical violence by intimate partner in the 12 months preceding the survey
-*17,091,000 women have been victims of psychological aggression by intimate partner in the 12 months preceding the survey
- the 12 months before taking the survey, an estimated 4.8% of men experienced some form of physical violence by an intimate partner
-an estimated 18.0% of men experienced some form of psychological aggression in the 12 months preceding the survey.
-*5,452,000 men have been victims of physical violence by intimate partner in the 12 months preceding the survey
-*20,471,000 men have been victims of psychological aggression by intimate partner in the 12 months preceding the survey
*Table 6
By the data presented by the Center for Disease Control, out of the estimate of 10,226,000 yearly victims of intimate partner violence, 53.3% of victims where male and 46.6% were female. As for psychological aggression, out of the estimate of 37,562,000 yearly victims, 54.4% were male and 45.5% were female. These statistics would support the claim made in the bottom left.
Now I couldn’t find a primary source for the 70% of DV is initiated by women, but here’s the facts that I found, which may have been interpreted by the people who made this poster:
(http://www.huffingtonpost.com/glenn-sacks/researcher-says-womens-in_b_222746.html)
-Women who were in a battered women’s shelter, 67% of the women reported severe violence toward their partner in the past year.
This can be interpreted as “67% of violent couples with IPV is mutual”. But then again, primary sources and full data would be helpful to back up this claim.
But the one that is most interesting is:(http://psychnews.psychiatryonline.org/newsArticle.aspx?articleid=111137)(Another report analysis from the CDC)
-23.9% of relationships are violent
-50.3% of IPV is non-reciprocal and 49.7% is reciprocal (Reciprocal IPV= Mutual violence)
-70.7% of non-reciprocal IPV is initiated by women.
So summing up the numbers, it’s not that 70% of all DV is initiated by women, its that 70% of non-reciprocal DV is initiated by women. To go further would say that 49.7% of DV is mutual, 36.2% of DV is initiated by women, and 14.5% of DV is initiated by men
Male victims of domestic violence are real. They are hurting. And they often don’t get the attention and compassion they so urgently deserve and need.
Have a heart. Open your mind, and give a care.
Hm. These numbers are all so different to anything I’ve seen before. I’m reblogging and liking this both for my own reference and to spread these numbers to others. I’m definitely gonna look into this and see if I can find more sources and more information.
Mother fuckers can we all just say let’s not be dicks to our fucking love ones already?
Tagging this for my speech project that I need the sources for
Here are 221 studies on IPV / DV for y’all.
You are a life saver.
That list is good, but outdated. I e-mailed the researcher who compiled that list a couple weeks ago and he gave me three different documents. I uploaded them to this dropbox folder. You can go there and download them.
The list of studies is now up to 343 scholarly investigations (270 empirical studies and 73 reviews). Not only did he send me that list, but he also sent me two meta-studies (also in the dropbox folder). One is on male/female perpetration rates and the other is on male/female victimization rates.
There is also “Rates of Bi-directional versus Uni-directional Intimate Partner Violence Across Samples, Sexual Orientations, and Race/Ethnicities: A Comprehensive Review“. It’s a mouthful to be sure. Basically this study took the data from 48 other empirical studies, collated the data, placed it online for public viewing, submitted it for peer review, and was found to be accurate.
It’s findings basically wind down to this:
- 84% of relationships are non-violent
- 58% of relationships that are violent, both partners abuse the other.
- 28% of violent relationships only the woman is violent
- 14% of violent relationships only the man is violent.
This is featured Partner Abuse State of Knowledge Project website and is part of a much larger DV research project. You can read the summarized findings here or take a gander at the full 61-page review. This is a compilation of the research of Erin Pizzey, Murray Strauss, Don Dutton, and many others who are challenging the feminist model of patriarchal dominance. They also have some videos that are very informative as well.
Murray Strauss also compiled: Thirty Years of Denying the Evidence on Gender Symmetry in Partner Violence: Implications for Prevention and Treatment. A report detailing the existence of over 200 studies showing gender symmetry in victimization rates. Studies that show symmetry going as far back as 1975. He also examines the methods feminist researchers have used to suppress the evidence from public discourse, hence the title “Thirty Years of Denying the Evidence”.
Two other excellent and brief videos on the topic come from the MenAreGood YouTube channel:
Male Victims of Domestic Violence - The Hidden Story
Bias Against Men and Boys in Mental Health Research
I really need to write up a solo reference post for domestic violence data…
You are also a life saver.
This is so important
Reblogging since this is a huge list of scholarly sources. Am poking through some of these and it’s a fucking huge list.
- Mod Kuzco
this is very important, so i’m abstaining from fallout for a bit to bring this to everyone’s attention.
Coincidentally, I was reading earlier today that most men who are repeated victims of abuse learn NOT to call the police because THEY’Re usually the ones who end up being arrested.
This is true. It’s actually been studied before and this was the result:
The men in the survey who called the police found them to be “very helpful” in only 19% of cases, and “not at all helpful” in 50% of cases. More importantly, when an abused man called the police, the police were more likely to arrest him than to arrest his abusive female partner. The men who called the police were arrested in 26% of cases, whereas their abusive partners were arrested in only 17%. Half the time the police arrested nobody, despite the abuse, and in 8% of the cases they arrested both the abuser and the victim. In those cases where the police did identify the abused man’s female partner as the aggressor, in 29% of cases, they refused to arrest the abusive woman. In 39% of these cases they said that there was nothing they could do and left.
This is relevant for my interests. It might also be relevant for some others’ interests to know that Influential Feminists™ consider these relevant for their interests.
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